Showing posts with label books. Show all posts
Showing posts with label books. Show all posts

Friday, January 4, 2013

Hot, hot, hot

How hot can it be? We've just had almost a week of more than about 37 degrees here (more than about 100F). That's hot!

Christmas Day was very hot and I was very lucky to be able to spend it in an airconditioned house!

For those of you who don't live in Western Australia, here is how lots of us start each Christmas Day. We go to the beach, have a glass of champagne with breakfast and cool off in the water. Marvellous!




It was very hot all the way through to New Year's Day. I survived in my beautiful new house with the airconditioning on. I am a bit worried about my next electricity bill! Still, it was beautiful inside and like a furnace outside. I read several books. The first and second best was "Catch Me" by Lisa Gardner. It is about a woman in her late 20s who approaches Dective DD Warren to find her killer - she is going to be murdered in four days' time. DD Warren becomes involved and tries to work out who it will be. It was riveting reading! I couldn't put it down.

Then there was "Oh Dear Sylvia" by Dawn French. It was a total change of pace - a little bit of humour, a little bit of nastiness and a lot of discovering that Sylvia was a multi-layered person, who in the end did things for the right reason. It made me think of why people do things and sometimes everyone else thinks that what someone else does is wrong, or mean, or horrible, but there may be a reason behind it that is none of those things.

Next was another dectective mystery by John Connelly called "Burning Soul". This one was about a man called Randall Haight, who had been jailed for murder as a 14 year old. He and a friend had murdered a 14 year old girl and now in the town he lives in another 14 year old girl has gone missing. Someone is sending him photos of the barn where they killed the girl and his secret is now out. Detecitve Charlie Parker has to find out who is sending the photos and who took the girl. Was it Randall Haight? This one only took a couple of days to read, it was so good. I find I always rush through good books like this because I want to find out what happens, but then I get let-down when I finish, because there is no more to read.

After that I went to the library and found another Lisa Gardner book entitled "Love You More". Boy! How good was that? Even better than the first one. I only took about a day to read this one. A mother (a State Trooper near Boston) witnessed the murder of her husband and at the same time found out that her four year old daughter had been kidnapped by the same people. To save her daughter she must confess to the murder! This book too shows that the things people do may not be for the reasons that we think. Detective DD Warren and her partner have to find out why she killed her husband. Towards the end they realise that maybe she didn't and they have to work it all out,

Yesterday I read "Old Filth" by Jane Gardam, which is about a retired international lawyer with a practice in Hong Kong. He was a Raj Orphan, a child born to English parents in the Far East and then sent back to England at the age of about four or five to be fostered and educated. It was a lovely story and completely different from all the others that I had read. I liked his name Old Filth because it stands for Failed in England Try Hong Kong! There is another book from his wife's perspective, "The Man in the Wooden Hat". I haven't read that one yet.

Every Christmas we have two weeks off work and every year I tell myself that I am going to do all sorts of things around the house and every year it is too hot so I just read lots of books. At least I enjoyed myself!





Sunday, October 21, 2012

Friends - how we keep them, how we value them

I had some friends around for dinner last night. Can you believe that three of them were named Kim? Two boy Kims and one girl Kim. I met all of these people, except one, when I was about 17 or 18. At 50 something, that means we have been friends for almost 40 years!
Amazing!

As we were having a good time last night I began wondering what it is that that made us stay friends for all these years. Of course, we had wandered in and out of each others' lives, but always maintained a sense of what the others were doing.

At the end of the Kakeroma, Japan, 16km swim


I wonder if it is because you have similar interests, or maybe just enjoy doing things together. In the photo above we had just finished a 16km swim. I did it as a duo with the lady on the left. She lives in Japan and I live in Western Australia and even though we only see each other every couple of years, if we're lucky, I just know that we will always be friends. I think it's not only that we share interests, but also because we just clicked straight away and enjoy each others' company.

I don't think 'just clicking' with my friends from the dinner party is why we are still friends, but maybe we did a lot of things as a group in our teens and twenties and then as people had kids, we still maintained our friendship by phone calls, coffee and going out together. I don't know, but it's very satisfying to have such long term friends.

That just reminded me of a book that I have just finished reading called "When God Was a Rabbit". It was about a girl, her brother and their friend and all the people in their lives as they were growing up. It examined what different kinds of friendship could be like. I couldn't put it down.